Monday, 19 August 2013

Some Tips For Muet Writing

Hye guys! Thought wanna share with ya'll some tips I found for MUET Writing. For additional information, and besides, thought of getting myself used to generating ideas for writing. Haha

Okay. These infos are taken from various websites. Here we go!

There is a way to score well in MUET. One thing for sure , never rely on your listening part even though i can guarantee almost all of you would score a perfect score in school level. WHY? 90% Of the time , the speakers in school tend to play a prank on us. Yes, they're always very "echo-ish" and you can't possibly listen well. Besides, Listening only gives you 15 % of the marks. BUT , i am not asking you to totally abandoned it.Just , do not trust the school speakers.

The most important part is the reading comprehension. It weigh up to 45 % of your marks. that's like almost half of the total marks. So , this part is VERY important. I used to suck a lot in this part until one day , i found a very effective way to understand the passage. UNDERLINE. that's the key word. Try to just read through very quickly the passage cause the passage tend to be very long , and later read the question , so you know roughly what to find in the passage. Then read again and underlined what you think it is important. You do not need to be someone with bombastic English to score in this part. The most important thing is , you understand roughly what the passage is about, and trust me you'll have no problem answering it. For the cloze text, you'll need to do a lot of sample test for it. Buy a lot of model papers to do for this paper and later you'll find most of the questions are almost similar. Remember , this section is very important. If you can score this part, you won't need to worry about not scoring a band 4 again.

The writing section is often the most difficult part. I scored a "so-so" mark for my writing , but i would say the question for the essays are usually difficult. They'll ask you things you never really thought of. So , never underestimate any important agenda around , cause that's the one that most likely to come out.I don't know , maybe it's kind of like a spell. (haha) however, it is important to know what is the hottest news in the country because giving a realistic examples is a huge credit.


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Writing tips

1. Before writing an essay, you must know its basic structure. A MUET reference book might show you this.

2. Do task 2 first, because it is worth more mark and easier

3. Don’t waste too much time on Task 1. Learn all specific writing structure for each type of task 1. In the real test, you just have to apply that structure with new data and suitable verb tenses. Read sample essays and take note good structure to have a wide range of academic structures for task 1. Some structure might be used in task 2 as well.

4. You must complete both tasks. I don’t care how difficult the test is, I don’t care how little time you got. You MUST complete your test at any cost. If you don’t, you will be penalized very heavily.

5. Again, practice writing. Do both 2 tasks in one hour. You can focus only on task 1 or task 2, but before the test, you should practice writing both tasks to familiar with time limit.

6. Practice makes perfect. In writing, this statement is completely true. But it is better if there is someone to check writing for you and you can learn from your mistakes.

7. Writing requires wide academic vocabulary. You also have to buy a vocabulary book to work on and enrich your vocabulary.

8. Avoid all informal ways of writing. There are some rules of writing you should follow. For example: no abbreviations, no 1st and 2nd pronoun or possessive (I, you, me, my, your), except in conclusion where you have to state your opinion.

9. Each body paragraph has to include: topic sentence, supporting sentences (2-3 sentences), development sentences (evidence: example, experience, data). In many languages (English included), there are many ways to develop a body paragraph, which results that topic sentence is not the first sentence. But you are advised to put topic sentence at the beginning of each body paragraph. Don't be creative in this case.

That is all I can think of. I hope you will be lucky in your exam and what I wrote will help you in one way or another. But REMEMBER, to reach success, you MUST make an effort. You should have a clear motivation and a strong will to overcome difficulties. When I did practice tests, I was exhausted. But no success comes easily. Practice is the only way to gain success. Don’t just wait for lucky break, it will never come if you don’t know how to grab it.

And the final point I want to mention is:

Relax before the test!

Attempting to do one or two practice test before the real test won’t help you increase your score. In return, it will make you feel stressed and unconfident.


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You can also find some post on a blog relating to MUET here.

This is what I first found on the blog when I reached there.


bout other “degrees” you can get).

As for the first three points – everything depends on you only. Just be patient, and think before you do something. As for the last part, writing MUET essays, we would like to give you a couple of tips.

Let us consider several specific issues about MUET essays:
  1. Demonstrate your writing skills: mind the logical transitions between words, sentences, and parts of your MUET essay.
  2. Prove your perfect understanding of the language. Do not use some difficult words you do not know how to spell for sure. Your MUET essay is not the right place for experiments. So, do not make such mistakes.
  3. Try to write up to the point. You will get a topic to disclose in the MUET essay. Do not deviate from the main idea of your essay. Use interesting examples (real-life examples are preferable).
In fact, MUET is an optional test. So, if you think you are not that good at reading or you will not be able to write a good MUET essay, you can choose some other way to enter the desirable university.



Also, some MUET Writing Scripts.

*UPDATED


People have been telling me that MUET is JUST MUET. Contaminated by the thought that MUET is EASY, I didn’t put much effort when I sat for the end of 2009 MUET. I perceived MUET as just another English test to sit. I simply thought that as long as I pass the minimum band requirement for my college, it is good enough. I only spent a few hours the night before the test by going through several essay questions to kick-start my brain and that was it. Despite my little effort and much to my astonishment, I scored a Band 6 in MUET. J I am very grateful that Lady Luck was on my side. However, some of my friends weren’t very lucky. They had the same mindset as I did – no need to do preparations, just achieve the minimum band and rejoice. Sadly, quite a number of them had to re-sit the test as they scored below the required band for our college. Hey, MUET IS A HIGHER LEVEL ENGLISH TEST. If you screw it once, you’ll have to pay and re-sit for another. And because I don’t want others to face what my friends faced, I wish to help everyone out there who is eager to perform well in their upcoming MUET. So here are some brief introduction and tips on how to ace MUET based entirely on my experience.

Firstly, there are 4 papers to sit for MUET: Listening, Speaking, Reading and Writing. The Speaking test is conducted on one day, while the Listening, Reading and Writing tests are held altogether on a different day.
What to expect: 20 questions consisting of both MCQ and subjective questions. The tape will be repeated twice and extra time will be given for you to answer all the questions.

My experience: I have to say that I am very lucky for MUET. I was seated in the first row and the radio was right in front of my desk. Unlike my friends who sat far behind and could only hear whispers of voices, I could hear loudly and clearly – word by word. Very lucky, weren’t I? *grins*

Tips: Frankly speaking, the questions for listening test are pretty easy and straightforward. You just have to listen attentively and take your time in answering the questions. I have to warn you that the questions are not in sequence with the dialogue so you should first brief through the questions before the session starts. Don’t panic if you missed a point as the tape will be repeated for a second time.

Well, I hope that I’ve made MUET easy for you. May you have a great MUET experience and score one of the high bands. MUET is rather tough if your English isn’t strong but fret not because practice makes perfect. JBuy a MUET exercise/sample papers/past year compilation book to have a better grasp of this test. If I can score a band 6, why can’t you? I am neither a debater nor a public speaker. I speak in my mother tongue (which is not English!) 24/7 at home. So if I can ace a band 6, I’m pretty sure you can too.

Have faith in yourself and all the best, folks! xD
Reading Test
What to expect: A total of 45 objective questions; 10 are True/False questions. The questions are based on several passages. Duration of 90 minutes.

My experience: Honestly, this paper was the most difficult for me. The passages were difficult to understand as a broad range of vocabulary was in use. The MCQ choices were very tricky and time constraint made it even worse. I didn’t even have the time to recheck my answers.

Tips: Truth be told, you need to practise answering some MUET sample questions as preparation. I didn’t try any questions and oh my, I was so stumped that it took me a long time to understand the passages! The passages are very difficult to comprehend but I suppose that if you’re used to reading newspapers it wouldn’t be a problem. When answering the paper, read the excerpt first (understand the main idea), then go through the questions briefly and finally read the excerpt again. Underline or highlight sentences that are related to the questions. Most importantly, FOCUS! Don’t bother looking at other candidates or build castles in the air. Trust me, the 90 minutes is not enough!
Writing Test
What to expect: 1 summary (comparison) question based on a graphic. The graphic can be tables, graphs, short excerpts or even bar/pie charts. You are required to make comparison based on the graphic provided. Also, 1 essay question; usually argumentative. 90 minutes.

My experience: The night before my MUET, I sat with my roommate and we brainstormed on points for the essay, new words, idioms, quotes and the like. I’ve always loved writing so I wasn’t very worried for this section.

Tips: For the summary question, familiar yourself with comparison words. Use words like ‘better than’, ‘higher’, ‘rise’, ‘elevate’, ‘levelled out’, ‘equal’, ‘reduce’ and ‘lessen’ to give your essay a boost. Concentrate only on the main points as you are to write a very short 200 words summary. You should first compare on the statistics/graphs/etc given, then add 1 or two points based on your understanding of the graphic. Or in other words, write a few lines on your inference on the graphic. As for the argumentative essay, try to memorise a number of bombastic words and idioms to beautify your essay. You shouldn’t simply memorise them but you ought to know how and when to use them. Also, check out a thesaurus to find synonyms for useful words that you may want to use repetitively. For instance, alternatives to ‘thus’ are ‘therefore’, ‘hence’, ‘consequently’ and ‘as a result’. In addition, to defend your stand, use words like ‘justify’, ‘strongly belief’, ‘affirm’, ‘emphasize’ and et cetera. If you are weak in writing, avoid composing a lengthy essay. The longer you write, the more grammatical errors you’ll make. Try to write a short but compact essay.
Listening Test
What to expect: 20 questions consisting of both MCQ and subjective questions. The tape will be repeated twice and extra time will be given for you to answer all the questions.

My experience: I have to say that I am very lucky for MUET. I was seated in the first row and the radio was right in front of my desk. Unlike my friends who sat far behind and could only hear whispers of voices, I could hear loudly and clearly – word by word. Very lucky, weren’t I? *grins*

Tips: Frankly speaking, the questions for listening test are pretty easy and straightforward. You just have to listen attentively and take your time in answering the questions. I have to warn you that the questions are not in sequence with the dialogue so you should first brief through the questions before the session starts. Don’t panic if you missed a point as the tape will be repeated for a second time.

Well, I hope that I’ve made MUET easy for you. May you have a great MUET experience and score one of the high bands. MUET is rather tough if your English isn’t strong but fret not because practice makes perfect. JBuy a MUET exercise/sample papers/past year compilation book to have a better grasp of this test. If I can score a band 6, why can’t you? I am neither a debater nor a public speaker. I speak in my mother tongue (which is not English!) 24/7 at home. So if I can ace a band 6, I’m pretty sure you can too.

Have faith in yourself and all the best, folks! xD

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Reading test
There are not many tips to share in this test, it is similar to Form 5 SPM English exam, just do your best. There are some tricky questions with similar answers. If you are lucky, you could get a perfect score here but usually the better students would be able to get near perfect scores, making a few mistakes here and there.

Writing test
Seriously, I have always told people that the writing test in MUET is even easier than SPM GCE 'O' Level. In this test, it is important to keep to the rules, follow the recommend length of essays and finish them in allocated time.

Even if you are a good English user, do not attempt to write beyond the recommended length. Concentrate instead on presenting your main ideas, this test papers are marked by Malaysian teachers, so don't bother having too many idioms, figurative meanings, etc.

For students who are not too comfortable with English, this may be one of the tests which you would tend to lose many points. To avoid that, keep your sentences short, check your grammars, try to compensate for your lack of flowery language with good ideas, mature arguments and logical explanations.

To be honest, it is not so easy to score a Band 6 in MUET after all. It is not the perfect test, but it is indicative of one's command of English, mainly because it includes listening and speaking tests. Good luck scoring a Band 6 in MUET on your first try, do let me know if my tips are useful.


Hint for listening: write notes

Hint for writing: write with a lot of bombastic words and check your grammar. Remember to compare and contrast the two sets of data you get in your first writing task well.


Hint for reading: read very carefully for answers in the text
Here's something for you to ponder about. I can only give the three upper band as a motivation to you and I. 

Band 6 – Very good user(Aggregated Score: 260 – 300)
Very good command of the language. Highly expressive, fluent, accurate and appropriate language: hardly any inaccuracies. Very good understanding of language and contexts. Functions extremely well in the language.

Band 5 – Good user (Aggregated Score: 220 – 259)
Good command of the language. Expressive, fluent, accurate and appropriate language but with minor inaccuracies. Good understanding of language and contexts. Functions well in the language.

Band 4 – Competent user (Aggregated Score: 180 – 219)
Satisfactory command of the language. Satisfactory expressive and fluent, appropriate language but with occasional inaccuracies. Satisfactory understanding of language and contexts. Functions satisfactorily in the language.



We need to think positively, but not to forget to put some EFFORT in it. XD

I know, we are all scared for the writing part. Honestly, in my opinion, Listening, you just have to make sure that you clean up your ear wax in your ear (LOL. But it's important!). Reading, for me, I must not be careless, read the text well, and choose the RIGHT answer. Writing... it depends on individual. Mostly said that use bombastic words, and make sure your essay isgrammatically correct. I'd like to add another one, KEEP UPDATED ON LATEST NEWS!!

Hope it helps ya'll. And me. All the best to all of us taking MUET this coming 13th Nov.


P.s.: Wait for more updates from me after I'm done with this MUET thingy! XD

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Cara Mengatasi Rasa Malas Untuk Bersolat

First of all, for sure mostly as a muslim yang belum cukup ilmu di dada ni akan faced dgn this situation mase nak solat kan? so here the tips to maximize our solah to the tip top ! ;) 



1. Bersiap sedia mengambil wuduk sebelum azan.

2. Jangan berlengah-lengah untuk bersolat setelah azan berkumandang.

3. Sentiasa mengingati bahawa malaikat Izrail boleh dating bila-bila masa untuk mencabut nyawa kita, dan kita akan mati.


4. Fikirkan segala azab yang akan diberikan oleh Allah s.w.t.

5. Fikirkan bagaimana siang boleh menjadi malam pada tepat waktunya tanpa sebarang kesilapan. Ia membuktikan kekuasaan Allah s.w.t.

6. Mengenal sifat-sifat Allah kerana dengan mengenal sifat-sifat Allah, manusia akan mendapat merasakan kehadiranNYA dan langsung menanam benih cinta terhadap Allah. Dengan ini manusia akan turut setiap perintah Allah dan tidak akan melengahkan sembahyangnya. InsyaAllah.

7. Mengingati bahwa solat itu penting sebelum kita disolatkan.


8. Sebagai manusia kita tidak lepas dari membuat dosa, dan waktu bersolat itu adalah masa yang sesuai untuk bertaubat.

9. Pergi ke masjid sekiranya malas bersolat bersendirian.

10.Bersembahyang berjemaah bersama ahli keluarga.

11. Menghayati bahawa solat itu adalah jalan yang benar-benar ke akhirat.

12. Jangan makan terlalu banyak kerana bila perut terlalu kenyang akan membuat kita berat dan mengantuk, maka malaslah kita untuk solat.

in sya Allah Allah akan membantu hamba2 nya yang berjihad di jalannya

Tuesday, 21 May 2013

Take care of urself,, Bye Angah.. ~

Hye asslammualaikum.. entry kali ni bukan pasal diri sendiri , isu semasa, politik mahupun keadaan terkini cuaca dunia.. haha.. tapi.. this is special about my beloved sister angah!
haa.. entry ni pasal kau,, harap kau terasa lah ye bile membaca.. *muehehe..*


ni hah budak nye yang nak pegi kedah..
jauhnya.. :'(

firstly, along nak cakap, I’m proud of your achievement, congrates..
secondly, bile dah sekian lama kau dalam kekusutan  nak memilih mahu dicampak kan di mana, weather,,



1. UiTM – Diploma Kejuruteraan Mekanikal
                     OR
2. Matrik - Aliran Sais Tulen

At the end,, kaw choose Matrik jugak kan setelah dihasut habis-habisan oleh along, haha..
Btw, tat’s is good for you,, short sem je kan,, cepat,.. macam along amek diploma dah 3 tahun kene habiskan.. so nanti buat degree we can go together..

 Secondly..
sorry sangat2,, I’m begging for your forgiveness sebab along memang tak dapat nak hantar kau pergi kedah nanti.. memang nak sangat ikut sekali tapi apakan daya,, ada tanggungjawab yang lebih besar perlu dilaksanakan,, hikhiks! Takde lah.. main2 je lah kaw nii.. actually ade final exam lah… *ergh !
leceh kan dah nak hujung2 bulan pun ade exam.. normal lah tu,, life as a student,, kaw pun nanti merasa.. *padan muka!
J


Thirdly..
Jaga diri baik2 dekat sana,, jauh kott kedah,, ape2 hal terus inform ibu dgn abah kat Johor,,
jangan kau memandai settle sendiri or diam diri. Ingat!

jaga kesihatan.. kau dah bawak semua ubatkan.. kau tu dah lah rajin semput,, so jangan byk sgt minum ice,, kalau masa orentasi dia suruh kaw marathon cakap lah pasal semput kaw,, kalau kaw tak nak menyusahkan diri lah kene sedut gas..


lepas tu ..

this is the best point lah along nak bagi tau,, pasal makanan,, kat sana kaw akan banyak jumpa makanan yang pelik2 macam ni.. 

ni namenye bunga tanjung,, buat dari telur itik,
sedap sebab dia rebus dgn air gula,


yang ni name dia bunga dupak,,
yang ni pulak tak tau pulak rase dy mcm mane,,

ni name dy kuih karas, rupa mcm roti jala,
tapi kau jgn jadi orang jakun, ni ala2 keropok sikit,

along tau,, kau ni memilih sikit,, tu tak makan, ni tak makan,, pebende ntah.. hee..
but this is my advice,, kau bedal je lah,, makan je lah ape yang dia bagi kalau kaw tak nak kebuluran lah..
muehehe.. so make sure,, bile kau balik Johor along nak tengok kau dah gemuk ae,,
ni nak buat pengakuan, yang sebenarnya kau kurus sangat macam papan, serius weyh!
so… dah tak reti2 nak makan banyak2..

fourth
Jaga solat,, don’t ever and never to left it.. sebab even kite berusaha sekeras mana pun, tapi kalau kite lupa tanggungjawab kite dekat Allah,, kejayaan tu tak kan ade makna.. belajar, tawakal, ingt Allah, in sya Allah ape yang kau belajar berkat..
kat sana nanti rajin2 lah call ibu dengan abah.. at least 3 times per week ker..
as u know,, kau tau kan macam mana ibu dgn abah risau pasal kaw,, so jgn buat of any things yang boleh buat dorang risau..

Lastly..
take care of yourself,, of your diets,,of your solah,, and always behave..
and always remind of this words,, be the best among the best and try to be the top among the top.
and when u come back, bring your success..
Your sister,
Along .
J


Saturday, 11 May 2013

19 Hadis Rasulullah SAW Mengenai Wanita


1. Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayangnya yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah s.a.w. akan hal tersebut, jawab Baginda s.a.w., “Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia”.

2. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebajikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.

3. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah s.w.t.

4. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia dari dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

5. Apabila telah lahir anak lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

6. Apabila semalaman ibu tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah s.w.t. memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah s.w.t.

7. Barangsiapa yang menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah s.w.t. dan orang yang takutkan Allah s.w.t., akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.

8. Barangsiapa membawa hadiah, (barang makanan dari pasar ke rumah lalu diberikan kepada keluarganya, maka pahalanya seperti bersedekah). Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki. Maka barangsiapa yang menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.
9. Tiap perempuan yang menolong suaminya dalam urusan agama, maka Allah s.w.t. memasukkan dia ke dalam syurga lebih dahulu daripada suaminya (10,000 tahun).

10. Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa bulan Ramadhan, memelihara kehormatannya serta taat akan suaminya, masuklah dia dari pintu syurga mana sahaja yang dikehendaki.



11. Wanita yang solehah (baik) itu lebih baik daripada 1,000 lelaki yang soleh.

12. Aisyah berkata, “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah s.a.w, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jawab Rasulullah s.a.w., “Suaminya”. “Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?” Jawab Rasulullah s.a.w, “Ibunya”.

13. Apabila memanggil akan engkau dua orang ibubapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu dahulu.

14. Wanita yang taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung di udara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semua beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya.

15. Wanita yang taat berkhidmat kepada suaminya akan tertutup pintu-pintu neraka dan terbuka pintu-pintu syurga. Masuklah dari mana-mana pintu yang dia kehendaki dengan tidak dihisab.

16. Syurga itu di bawah tapak kaki ibu.

17. Wanita yang tinggal bersama anak-anaknya akan tinggal bersama aku (Nabi s.a.w) di dalam syurga.

18. Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka baginya syurga.

19. Daripada Aisyah r.a. “Barangsiapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuan lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada api neraka.”

Thursday, 2 May 2013

As long as we did not getting HALAL..

kan sweet kalau cegini.. (^_^)


BAHAYA CINTA SEBELUM KAHWIN!!!!


* pasti kelak dirimu ibarat lembu yg ditarik hidung oleh nafsu

*mnyibukkn hati dgn merindui makhluk yg bukan halal bagi mu seumpama mmbuka pintu bagi syaitan mnjalankn strateginya utk melupakan mu kpd diri NYA yg ESA
*hati terseksa dgn barah rindu
*rindu palsu akan mmbelenggu minda hingga ia terjajah dan terhina di bwh kawaln syaitan
*cinta lalai akn mnyebbkn dirimu lupa mempersiapkn diri utk kprluan dunia akhirt
*dirimu bleh jadi x rasional brfikir jika benar2 mabuk cinta
*jiwamu benar2 terganggu dlm menilai buruk baik
*jika berjaya melangkah kealam rumah tangga, nescaya atas dasar maksiat, yg mengundang padah kepada peribadi zuriatmu kelak
NA'UZUBILLAH!!!
(pemilik cintaku setelah ALLAH dan RASUL)--FATIMAH SYARHA




wallahualam....hati2 dlm permainan hati dan prasaan..jgn smpai termasuk ke prngkp syaitan!!!

Nikmatnya Perpisahan Insan ‘Bercouple’


Nikmatnya Perpisahan Insan ‘Bercouple’
by NAZHATUL SHAFIQKA on MEI 3, 2013

Assalamualaikum dan selamat sejahtera, ini ada satu artikel yang menarik untuk dikongsikan bersama, khasnya kepada mereka yang ‘bercouple’ atau yang merasa kesedihan akibat putus cinta dan sebagainya, semoga artikel ini dapat dijadikan renungan bersama ..



Nikmatnya Perpisahan Insan ‘Bercouple’









“Aku memang sangat mencintainya. Tapi aku terpaksa clash dengan dia..”



“Kenapa pulak?”



“Sebab aku selalu ingat dia sampai aku selalu lupa Allah.”



Pergh.. terbaiklah bro! Alhamdulillah..



Beruntung siapa dapat kekasih sepertinya. Bayangkanlah.. Tentu dia sudah dapat merasai penangan cinta daripada Allah sehingga sanggup untuk berpisah dengan insan yang selalu disayanginya dengan cara yang salah.



Ya.. begitulah.. Memilih untuk berpisah kerana Allah adalah keputusan yang sangat bijak. Itulah pilihan iman sebenarnya. Apabila menyedari diri sering terjebak dengan dosa ketika ber’couple’, iman yang ada dalam diri pasti akan menegur. Sangat terbaik orang yang sanggup menerima teguran daripada iman itu.



~Cepat-cepatlah terima teguran iman di hati sebelum nafsu mengambil alih.



Sememangnya terbaik. Itulah keputusan yang membawa manfaat buat dirinya dan kekasihnya. Bercintalah. Tapi buatlah keputusan untuk tidak ber’couple’. Selepas keputusan itu dibuat, akan berkurang atau tiada lagi episod-episod berpegangan tangan, bersentuh-sentuhan, bermanja-manjaan, membuang masa bersama, tinggalkan solat bersama, dan macam-macam lagi yang tidak sepatutnya berlaku sebelum kahwin. Masing-masing terhindar daripada maksiat dan dosa.



Itu barulah ‘saling menyayangi’ namanya. Mahu berpegangan tangan hingga ke Syurga atau ke Neraka? Tiada siapa yang mahu bersama ke Neraka bukan? Namun siapa yang betul-betul mahu bersama hingga ke Syurga?



Kadang-kadang kita merasakan nikmat ber’couple’ itu terlalu indah. Lalu kita suka. Tapi sebenarnya itu hanya sangkaan. Mainan nafsu. Direct to the point, ber’couple’ (sebelum nikah) tidak baik untuk kita.



Sebab itu Allah mengizinkan berlakunya ‘kehilangan’ atau perpisahan. Kerana ‘kehilangan’ atau perpisahan yang kita tidak suka itu sebenarnya baik untuk kita.



Allah ‘Azza Wa Jalla berfirman;

“Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagi kamu, dan boleh jadi kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagi kamu.Allah mengetahui, sedangkan kamu tidak mengetahui”
(Surah al-Baqarah ayat 216)



“biarlah kita kehilangan si dia kerana Allah. Jangan kita kehilangan Allah kerana si dia.”



Sahabat-sahabat semua.. Marilah sama-sama kita renungkan… Belum tentu pasangan kita itu adalah suami kita atau isteri kita. Kita ‘bercouple’ bagai nak rak, tiap malam bergayut dengan suara manja tanpa kita menyedarinya, waktu pagi bertemu berkepit ke hulu dan ke hilir tanpa rasa bersalah, semuanya hanya keindahan yang sementara.



Jika pasangan kita itu ditaqdirkan menjadi suami atau isteri kita, keindahan yang selalu kita nikmati di fasa sebelum pernikahan semakin suram. Jika dulu hampir setiap hari bertemu, namun setelah berada di alam pernikahan pandang pun menjadi jemu. Segala keindahan alam perkahwinan yang sepatutnya dinikmati di fasa tersebut turut hambar kerana sudah pun dirasai sebelum akad termeterai. Tiada lagi kejutan mahupun ‘suprise’ yang membahagiakan kerana hampir kesemua telah kita hadam dan menjadi perkara biasa kepada kita.



Kesimpulannya, serahkan lah hati kita kepada Allah. Simpankan rasa itu semata-mata hanya untuk Allah SWT. Biarkan Allah temukan hati yang mencintai Allah itu dengan hati yang lain, yang mana hati itu juga turut mencintai Allah. Yakinlah, jika kita menghiaskan hati ini dengan cinta Allah, pasti cinta yang hadir itu sentiasa mekar dan tidak akan layu. Malah cinta itu pasti kekal sentiasa kerana sandarannya juga adalah Zat yang Maha Kekal.



Marilah kita hayati dan amalkan doa ini. Semoga Doa Nabi Daud A.s ini memberi kita semangat dan teguh dalam mencinta Allah SWT sepenuh hati kita melebihi cinta kepada makhlukNya.



” Ya Allah, kurniakanlah daku perasaan cinta kepada-Mu, Dan cinta kepada orang yang mengasihi-Mu, Dan apa sahaja yang membawa daku menghampiri cinta-Mu. Jadikanlah cinta-Mu itu lebih aku hargai daripada air sejuk bagi orang yang kehausan, Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku memohon cinta-Mu, Dan cinta orang yang mencintai-Mu serta cinta yang dapat mendekatkan aku kepada cintaMu,



Ya Allah, apa sahaja yang Engkau anugerahkan kepadaku daripada apa yang aku cintai, Maka jadikanlah ia kekuatan untukku mencintai apa yang Engkau cintai. Dan apa sahaja yang Engkau singkirkan daripada apa yang aku cintai, Maka jadikanlah ia keredaan untukku dalam mencintai apa yang Engkau cintai, Ya Allah, jadikanlah cinta-Mu sesuatu yang paling aku cintai daripada cintaku kepada keluargaku, hartaku dan air sejuk pada saat kehausan.



Ya Allah, jadikanlah aku mencintai-Mu, mencintai malaikat-Mu, Rasul-Mu dan hamba-Mu yang soleh, Ya Allah, hidupkanlah hatiku dengan cinta-Mu dan jadikanlah aku bagi-Mu seperti apa yang Engkau cintai, Ya Allah, jadikanlah aku mencintai-Mu dengan segenap cintaku dan seluruh usahaku demi keredhaan-Mu.
(Hadis riwayat At-Tarmizi, Rasulullah SAW bersabda, “Inilah doa yang biasa dipanjatkan oleh Nabi Daud a.s”



Wallahu Ta’ala A’lam

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Tuesday, 26 February 2013

Marah sesuatu yang amazing..

Perubahan sikap dengan sikap marah ni selalu kite tengok bile face to face yang boleh buat kan dorang exposekan kemarahan masing2.. Kene caci maki tu ofc lah kan,, panas telinga je dengar.. nak tak nak kene jugaklah defend diri sendiri kadang2.. Paling malang bila dah level marah tu dah tahap out of control sampai hilang pertimbangan akal.. nauzubillah.. korang penah tak tak bertekak depan2 ? show habiskan.. rase puas.. tapi tu lah tak dapat ape pun nak marah2 nyy,, buat penat anak tekak jerr.. semua tau, expecially yg islam,, Allah dengan Rasulullah memang tak suka sifat marah ni, dan di assume sifat tu tercela, tengok lah betapa rendahnya seseorang tu dia marah.. Sebab nye marah ni boleh timbulkan attitude yang buruk kalau tak dikawal n dihapuskan sama sekali.. muhehe.. :) kalau dah marah mesti ade benci, mesti ade dendam plus sombong plus angkuh ! terkutuk betul ! Ja’far bin Muhammad pernah berkata: “Marah itu kunci segala kesalahan (kekejian).” so still nak marah2 lagi ker? nak marah tu ade kebaikan ade keburukan, semua orang tak boleh elak lah dari nak marah,, tapi ade kesan lah.. ofc more to bad.. contohnya macam nyy,, konon2 permulaan bagi nak betulkan keadaan tapi bile dah bercakap tak ingat dunia,, hampeh je.. cube fahamkan ayat ni Berbeza sifatnya apabila marah dalam hal dan keadaan sesama akidah. Namun dibezakan disebabkan ketiadaan persefahaman dalam perkara-perkara khilafiah. Paling malang, apabila ada pihak yang berlebih-lebihan berprasangka sesama mukmin disebabkan suaranya tidak didengar atas urusan agama. Marah boleh menjatuhkan seseorang kepada keadaan kufur. Marah boleh jadi mengakibatkan kemusnahan “akidah”, apabila masalah khilafiah terus dibahas dalam keadaan “marah” dan tidak tahu usul agama. *lain sangat kan bile marah yang dipandu, dengan marah yang tak dipandu,, memang senang lah setan nak hasut2 bagi lagi panas hati tu,, *nasib baik tak rentung.. ni antara jenis2 orang yang boleh kite kenal dia mase dia marah,, agak2 korang tergolong dalam group yang mana ? a) Sudden Anger (Marah Mengejut) -Individu yang mengalaminya mudah hilang sabar, sentiasa melahirkan “marah”, hatta dalam sekecil-kecil perkara. Namun, individu ini didapati cepat reda dan berasa menyesal. Walaubagaimnapun, alangkah indahnya apabila nafsu yang mengajak kepada kecelaan “marah” dapat dimulai dengan bacaan “Basmallah”. b) Shame-based Anger - Seorang yang sangat sensitif dengan suasana semasa. - Tidak dapat tahan marah bila dikritik, diperleceh atau diketepikan. Beliau lebih gemar merasa betul atas segala tindakan tanpa penafian orang lain. c) Deliberate Anger - Percaya bahawa dengan menunjukkan kemarahan segala kemahuan dan kehendak akan dipenuhi. Jenis begini tidak peduli untuk melanggar etika, undang-undang yang sedia ada asal matlamat digapai, haram katanya tidak mengapa. - Suka memanipulasi, membuli & menguasai orang lain. - Berpuas hati & megah sekiranya orang yang dimarahi berasa tersinggung & sedih. d) Addictive Anger (Ketagihan Marah) - Menjadi ketagih untuk marah apabila berada dalam ketagihan & tidak dapat menahan kemarahan. - Ada kaitan dengan ketagihan arak & dadah. marah ni memang tak best sebab boleh sebab kan muka korang jadi buruk giler!! :) tak caye cube tengok cermin.. ade lagi satu fakta bile marah saluran salur darah boleh jadi sempit sebab setan berebut2 dalam salur darah untuk menyucuk butir-butir kata dan tindakan penuh mazmumah. Maka lahirlah kemarahan yang disorak-sorai oleh syaitan laknatullah. Renungilah dan hayatilah firman ALLAH SWT: “Dan juga (lebih baik dan lebih kekal bagi) orang yang menjauhi dosa besar serta perbuatan keji; dan apabila mereka marah (disebabkan perbuatan yang tidak patut terhadap mereka), mereka memaafkannya.” [Surah al-Syura ayat 37]

Saturday, 9 February 2013

Makna doa iftitah

Allah Maha Besar dan segala puji bagi Allah dengan banyaknya. Naha Suci Allah sepanjang hari dan petang. Aku hadapkan wajahku bagi Tuhan yang mencipta langit dan bumi, dengan suasana lurus dan berserah diri dan aku bukan dari golongan yang musyrik. sesungguhnya solatku, ibadatku, hidupku, matiku adalah untuk Allah Tuhan sekelian alam. Tidak ada sekutu bagiNya dan kepadaku diperintahkan untuk tidak menyekutukan bagiNya dan aku dari golongan orang Islam

Friday, 25 January 2013

Beramai2 masuk asrama..

tajuk beramai2 masuk asrama , but why? ape citer nyy? nak citer lah nyy .. tahun 2013 nyy adalah tahun beramai2 masuk asrama untuk family fika, masing2 nak masuk asrama n tinggalkan rumah.( sedihh..) fika memang dah lama jadi insider, sekarang dah jadi outsider punn.. mula2 dulu nak tinggalkan rumah memang lah sedih sangat, macam nak nangis sambil guling2 atas lantai.. tapi dah lama2 okey dah.. dah faham kan tanggungjawab nak belajar.. so situasi yg same dia cycling dekat adik2 fika pulak.. mula2 yg no 3 shahira, masuk asrama dekat tech jasin melaka, dia pun mcm fika, melalak jugak.. sedih lah nak tingglkan rumah, rindu bilik tidur, rindu bilik air,rindu suasana subuh mase kene kejut,hee.. sebenarnya rindu kan ibu abah n adik2 n segenap ruang dekat rumah.. so sekarang turn nana pulak, adik yg ke-4 untuk mengalami situasi yg sama, pun masuk asrama jugak, dia lagi sadis sebulan sekali je dapat balik.. haha.. tak dapat bayangkan bila ratu masuk asrama ape jadi ae? mesti dia tak sempat nak gorgeous2 kan.. haha.. tak berapa lama pulak nanti angah pulak masuk asrama.. maybe dia amek matrik or asasi kot, so 1 year je.. tak pe lah sekarang dia cuti panjang, xpe2 bagi dia lemak2 sikit nanti dah insider fika nak gelak kuat2 dekat dia, boleh tak, boleh tak? hee.. yg tinggal kat rumah cuma rina n the youngest one wani je.. tu pun bakal2 jugak nak jadi insider jugak.. kesian ibu dengan abah.. :( moksu pernah cakap ibu bagi tau kat dia,ibu selalu menangis malam2 sebelum tidur sebab rindukan kite org yg insider je.. tak pe.. kite org janji akan belajar sungguh2 n make you n abah proud of us.. ok promise...

Tahun Baru ,Cerita Baru , Azam Baru ,

Assalammualaikum ,, Happy new year 2013 :)
kalau ikut calendar memang lah setiap hari akan berganjak sehingga melangkah masuk ke tahun baru,
tapi pengisian tu penting ,, so hows? :)
lets continue typing...

fika untuk new year ni macam2 yg fika dah fikir, nak buat tu,, nak buat ni.. banyak sangat lah yang nak buat,
in sya Allah Allah tolong n permudahkan..

untuk tahun ni no more hostel, no more ticketing bus , plusplusplus.. hehee..
fika moved duduk rumah sewa , very comfortable , sangat selesa ..
y fika cakap sangat selesa , sbb nye , everything complete , tinggal masuk cuci kaki je..
he provide plasma TV , air cond ,set perabut ruang tamu , meja makan , dapur memasak, katil + bantal,
iron board pun ade ,, wifi , almari baju ..washing machine, ice box , yang paling best seoarang dapat satu bilik,
no sharing ,, n yg owesome, katil double dec, so ikut suke hati nak tidur atas ke bawah ,,sbb tak de orang kisah n tak kan timbul pergaduhan untuk berebut katil, sbbnye sorang satu bilik,

housemate fika including me 4 orang jee.. sebab tak bising2 ,, tak nak ade masalah kekotoran n else..
house rent sangat berdekatan dengan kolej,
nak mudahkan lagi cerita kalau nak balik minum pun sempat..
so tiada lah timbul soalan2 seperti ini , ( kalau hujan macam mana nak balik ae? , kalau panas terik macam mana ae? kalau tertinggal buku macam mana ae? kalau ade gap panjang mcm mana ae? )
so tiada kedengaran lagi keluhan seperti itu,, huu...

okey2,, the second story is about education ,, misi bermatian2 untuk meningkatkan pointer.. haha..
mase nak naik sem baru tu fika dah dapat result pointer, so alhamdulillah pointer sangat2 memberangsangkan,,

so azam kali ni nak up lagi pointer (tamaknye) biar tamak nak dapatkan ilmu jgn tamak haloba nak dapatkan something yg useless.. al maklumlah nak dapatkan biasiswa mara kene lah tamak haloba sikit.. :)

new subject more to business ,, sbb ade account n finance , ade business information system.. ade marketing.. ade generate business using e-commerce,, so quite interesting lah..

the third is.. no more coupling.. :) ....
azam pada diri untu tidak ade kaitan denagn mana2 lelaki.. no spekulasi.. bukan ape tak nak semak kan fikiran.. eventhough dah janji kalau boleh biarlah habis degree dulu plus keje baru fikir pasal lelaki..
sekarang susah nak cakap n nak bagi faham.. strictly pintu hati susah nak terima sape2,, maybe sebab dah hari2 doa kat Allah supaya selagi fika belum bersedia, n selagi belum ade kewajipan nak bercinta jgn hadirkan rasa cinta tu .. urmmm.. nak elakkan maksiat, zina mata, zina hati, zina telingan n mcm2 lagi..

biarlah cinta yg hadir tu datang tepat pada masanya n Allah redha ..
biar hati terjaga, jodoh tu kalau boleh semua orang nak yg baik2 , yg soleh, yg mampu bimbing kita masuk syurga, in sya Allah..

the fourth is.. transformasi diri..
cerita ni berkenaan dgn rohani n jasmani.. haha.. bertekad nak jadi seorang muslimah yang solehah n mujahadah.. so maka berlakulah jihad jiwa ,
tau tak ape maksud jihad jiwa?
mcm jihad melawan nafsu ,, bejihad melawan keburukan diri sendiri..

kalau dulu solat tak cukup 5 waktu, tapi sekarang beazam nak cukupkan plus nak solat2 sunat sekali..
kalau dulu akhlak kadang2 tak jaga, so sekarang semua kene jaga, ada batas..
memang lah nak mendekatkan diri dengan tuhan tu payah, byk sgt halangan, tapi kalau berusaha n yakin dengan janji Allah untuk orang2 yg beriman dijanjikan syurga ensure semua orang tak nak buat jahat..

so... uolls ape azam tahun baru? :)