Syukur Kini Aku Menutup Aurat!

Syukur Kini Aku Menutup Aurat Dengan Sempurna!

Posted by MOHD ISLAM on 29/10/13

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Detik waktu yang semakin hari semakin membuka mata aku yang sedikit sepet ini untuk melihat betapa indahnya wanita yang menutupi auratnya dan melabuhkan pakaiannya di hadapan ajnabi. Aku masih samar dan hampir setahun lebih mencari identiti diri dengan membandingkan diri aku dengan wanita-wanita muslimah yang lain.

“Ya Allah, bagaimanakah dia boleh berpakaian menutup aurat begitu, sedangkan aku masih berpakaian membalut aurat?” 

“Aku nak pakai cantik-cantik la, biar jejaka-jejaka hensem melihat dan mengetahui kewujudan aku.”

“Aku nak hias elok-elok la sikit sebab nak jumpa kekasih hati aku.”

“Eh, dia tu pakai baju besar-besar tak rimas ke?”

Dan banyak lagi kenyataan dan persoalan yang dituturkan dalam minda dan hati aku. Astaghfirullahalaziim… begitu kolot pemikiran aku.

Aku pernah terfikir untuk mencuba berubah dan berhijrah menutup aurat dengan sempurna setelah masuk ke alam kampus. Namun, aku terlalu mengikut kata hati yang kadangkala membuat keinginan berubah itu menjadi mati.

Fikiran aku terus berputar mengatakan bahawa, jika aku ingin berubah untuk menutup aurat dengan sempurna, seluar jeans yang baru dibeli macamana? Baju-baju kesayangan tak dapat dipakai lagi, dan sewaktu dengannya. Tanpa aku menyedari, Allah telah membuka pintu hati aku secara perlahan-lahan, memberi taufik dan hidayah-Nya untuk mengubah cara berpakaianku seperti wanita muslimah yang ingin mencari syurga yang abadi.

Dan aku yakin, segelintir kaum hawa yang menangguh untuk berubah adalah disebabkan tidak bersedia untuk beristiqamah, kerana perangai yang kurang elok, dan rasa sayang terhadap pakaian yang baru dibeli, mahal dan cantik.

Wahai kaum hawa, berdoalah agar dibukakan pintu hati untuk menutup aurat dengan sempurna, berkorbanlah walau kalian sayang dengan pakaian mahal, sendat, cantik dan seumpama itu. Percaya dan yakinlah bahawa, pengorbanan itu tidaklah sia-sia melainkan pelbagai limpahan ganjaran yang akan Allah hadirkan nanti.

Memang ramai yang terfikir :

“Tutup aurat je, perangai tak tahulah; lebih daripada setan.”

“Harap je tutup melitup, perangai tak senonoh, ketawa berdekah-dekah.”

“Kalau aku nak berubah pakai elok-elok, aku nak ubah perangai dulu.”

Wahai sekalian sahabat-sahabat, perangai susah nak berubah. Kalau la nak tunggu perangai berubah dulu, kita tak tahu bila la nak dapat tutup aurat seperti garis panduan Islam. Buka minda kita, cuba berfikir secara logik, sekiranya kita cuba untuk menutup aurat dengan sempurna, dengan izin Allah, secara perlahan-lahan perangai yang buruk tadi akan turut berubah ke arah yang lebih baik. insyaAllah. Sama-sama kita doakan.

Hadirnya aku di sini, ingin cuba membuka mata kaum hawa yang aku cintai, sedarlah kita hidup cuma sementara, mati tak tahu bila, ajal masa mana pun boleh tiba. Berubahlah sebelum terlambat, berkorbanlah kerana pengorbanan itu harus dikorbankan.

Untuk apa?? Untuk menggapai redha Ilahi.

Untuk siapa?? Untuk Pencipta kita yang seharusnya kita patuhi.

Mengapa?? Kerana itu dituntut dalam Islam agama yang kita anuti.

Dan mengapa?? Kerana kita sememangnya hamba ALLAH, yang seharusnya minda dan hati selalu ingat Ilahi.

Alhamdulillah aku berubah kerana Allah. Allah telah hadirkan seseorang sahabat kepada aku yang dulunya berpakaian ‘rockers’ dan secara drastiknya dia memakai tudung bulat labuh. SubhanAllah, aku mengagumi kekuatan yang Engkau berikan kepada dirinya.

Lantas mindaku berputar ligat berfikir, “Dia boleh berubah, kenapa tidak aku?”

Aku mengumpul segala kekuatan, berubah kerana Allah, Allah lah yang menciptakan sekalian makhluk, kenapa tidak kita berkorban kerana-Nya? Sungguh banyak nikmat yang diberikan, tidakkah kita rasa betapa sayangnya Dia pada kita.

Diri ini bukanlah sempurna sangat tapi  mencuba untuk menyampaikan apa yang Allah suruh dan aku cuba untuk menyampaikan dakwah walaupun hanya sedikit.  Sudah jelas dalam Al-Quran, Allah menyuruh hamba-Nya menutup aurat, bukan membalut aurat.

“Wahai anak cucu Adam! Sesungguhnya kami telah menyediakan pakaian untuk menutupi auratmu dan untuk perhiasan bagimu. Tetapi, pakaian takwa, itulah yang lebih baik. Demikianlah sebahagian tanda-tanda kekuasaan Allah, mudah-mudahan mereka ingat.” (Al-A’Raf: 26)

Sekiranya kita sendiri mengkhianati diri kita, dan membuat kezaliman terhadap diri kita, maka siapa akan menolong kita nanti.

“…Wahai manusia! Sesungguhnya kezalimanmu bahayanyaakan menimpa dirimu sendiri; itu hanya kenikmatan hidup duniawi, selanjutnya kepada kamilah kembalimu, kelak akan kami kabarkan kepadamu apa yang telah kamu kerjakan.” (Yunus: 23)

Marilah berubah wahai kaum hawa. Tutuplah aurat dengan sempurnya. tak usah lah nak buka sini buka sana.

Dan… Al-Quran tidak ada keraguan padanya. Takutlah pada azab Allah. Cuba tutup aurat dengan sempurna, insyaAllah akan ada perubahan yang baik terhadap sesuatu yang lain.

“Kitab (Al-Quran) ini tidak ada keraguan padanya; petunjuk bagi mereka yang bertaqwa.” (Al-Baqarah: 2)

Jom sama-sama berubah! INIKALILAH!

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Some Tips For Muet Writing

Hye guys! Thought wanna share with ya'll some tips I found for MUET Writing. For additional information, and besides, thought of getting myself used to generating ideas for writing. Haha

Okay. These infos are taken from various websites. Here we go!

There is a way to score well in MUET. One thing for sure , never rely on your listening part even though i can guarantee almost all of you would score a perfect score in school level. WHY? 90% Of the time , the speakers in school tend to play a prank on us. Yes, they're always very "echo-ish" and you can't possibly listen well. Besides, Listening only gives you 15 % of the marks. BUT , i am not asking you to totally abandoned it.Just , do not trust the school speakers.

The most important part is the reading comprehension. It weigh up to 45 % of your marks. that's like almost half of the total marks. So , this part is VERY important. I used to suck a lot in this part until one day , i found a very effective way to understand the passage. UNDERLINE. that's the key word. Try to just read through very quickly the passage cause the passage tend to be very long , and later read the question , so you know roughly what to find in the passage. Then read again and underlined what you think it is important. You do not need to be someone with bombastic English to score in this part. The most important thing is , you understand roughly what the passage is about, and trust me you'll have no problem answering it. For the cloze text, you'll need to do a lot of sample test for it. Buy a lot of model papers to do for this paper and later you'll find most of the questions are almost similar. Remember , this section is very important. If you can score this part, you won't need to worry about not scoring a band 4 again.

The writing section is often the most difficult part. I scored a "so-so" mark for my writing , but i would say the question for the essays are usually difficult. They'll ask you things you never really thought of. So , never underestimate any important agenda around , cause that's the one that most likely to come out.I don't know , maybe it's kind of like a spell. (haha) however, it is important to know what is the hottest news in the country because giving a realistic examples is a huge credit.


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Writing tips

1. Before writing an essay, you must know its basic structure. A MUET reference book might show you this.

2. Do task 2 first, because it is worth more mark and easier

3. Don’t waste too much time on Task 1. Learn all specific writing structure for each type of task 1. In the real test, you just have to apply that structure with new data and suitable verb tenses. Read sample essays and take note good structure to have a wide range of academic structures for task 1. Some structure might be used in task 2 as well.

4. You must complete both tasks. I don’t care how difficult the test is, I don’t care how little time you got. You MUST complete your test at any cost. If you don’t, you will be penalized very heavily.

5. Again, practice writing. Do both 2 tasks in one hour. You can focus only on task 1 or task 2, but before the test, you should practice writing both tasks to familiar with time limit.

6. Practice makes perfect. In writing, this statement is completely true. But it is better if there is someone to check writing for you and you can learn from your mistakes.

7. Writing requires wide academic vocabulary. You also have to buy a vocabulary book to work on and enrich your vocabulary.

8. Avoid all informal ways of writing. There are some rules of writing you should follow. For example: no abbreviations, no 1st and 2nd pronoun or possessive (I, you, me, my, your), except in conclusion where you have to state your opinion.

9. Each body paragraph has to include: topic sentence, supporting sentences (2-3 sentences), development sentences (evidence: example, experience, data). In many languages (English included), there are many ways to develop a body paragraph, which results that topic sentence is not the first sentence. But you are advised to put topic sentence at the beginning of each body paragraph. Don't be creative in this case.

That is all I can think of. I hope you will be lucky in your exam and what I wrote will help you in one way or another. But REMEMBER, to reach success, you MUST make an effort. You should have a clear motivation and a strong will to overcome difficulties. When I did practice tests, I was exhausted. But no success comes easily. Practice is the only way to gain success. Don’t just wait for lucky break, it will never come if you don’t know how to grab it.

And the final point I want to mention is:

Relax before the test!

Attempting to do one or two practice test before the real test won’t help you increase your score. In return, it will make you feel stressed and unconfident.


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You can also find some post on a blog relating to MUET here.

This is what I first found on the blog when I reached there.

bout other “degrees” you can get).

As for the first three points – everything depends on you only. Just be patient, and think before you do something. As for the last part, writing MUET essays, we would like to give you a couple of tips.

Let us consider several specific issues about MUET essays:

1. Demonstrate your writing skills: mind the logical transitions between words, sentences, and parts of your MUET essay.
2. Prove your perfect understanding of the language. Do not use some difficult words you do not know how to spell for sure. Your MUET essay is not the right place for experiments. So, do not make such mistakes.
Try to write up to the point. You will get a topic to disclose in the MUET essay. Do not deviate from the main idea of your essay. Use interesting examples (real-life examples are preferable).

In fact, MUET is an optional test. So, if you think you are not that good at reading or you will not be able to write a good MUET essay, you can choose some other way to enter the desirable university.

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Also, some MUET Writing Scripts.

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People have been telling me that MUET is JUST MUET. Contaminated by the thought that MUET is EASY, I didn’t put much effort when I sat for the end of 2009 MUET. I perceived MUET as just another English test to sit. I simply thought that as long as I pass the minimum band requirement for my college, it is good enough. I only spent a few hours the night before the test by going through several essay questions to kick-start my brain and that was it. Despite my little effort and much to my astonishment, I scored a Band 6 in MUET. J I am very grateful that Lady Luck was on my side. However, some of my friends weren’t very lucky. They had the same mindset as I did – no need to do preparations, just achieve the minimum band and rejoice. Sadly, quite a number of them had to re-sit the test as they scored below the required band for our college. Hey, MUET IS A HIGHER LEVEL ENGLISH TEST. If you screw it once, you’ll have to pay and re-sit for another. And because I don’t want others to face what my friends faced, I wish to help everyone out there who is eager to perform well in their upcoming MUET. So here are some brief introduction and tips on how to ace MUET based entirely on my experience.

Firstly, there are 4 papers to sit for MUET: Listening, Speaking, Reading and Writing. The Speaking test is conducted on one day, while the Listening, Reading and Writing tests are held altogether on a different day.

What to expect: 20 questions consisting of both MCQ and subjective questions. The tape will be repeated twice and extra time will be given for you to answer all the questions.

My experience: I have to say that I am very lucky for MUET. I was seated in the first row and the radio was right in front of my desk. Unlike my friends who sat far behind and could only hear whispers of voices, I could hear loudly and clearly – word by word. Very lucky, weren’t I? *grins*

Tips: Frankly speaking, the questions for listening test are pretty easy and straightforward. You just have to listen attentively and take your time in answering the questions. I have to warn you that the questions are not in sequence with the dialogue so you should first brief through the questions before the session starts. Don’t panic if you missed a point as the tape will be repeated for a second time.

Well, I hope that I’ve made MUET easy for you. May you have a great MUET experience and score one of the high bands. MUET is rather tough if your English isn’t strong but fret not because practice makes perfect. JBuy a MUET exercise/sample papers/past year compilation book to have a better grasp of this test. If I can score a band 6, why can’t you? I am neither a debater nor a public speaker. I speak in my mother tongue (which is not English!) 24/7 at home. So if I can ace a band 6, I’m pretty sure you can too.

Have faith in yourself and all the best, folks! xD

Reading Test

What to expect: A total of 45 objective questions; 10 are True/False questions. The questions are based on several passages. Duration of 90 minutes.

My experience: Honestly, this paper was the most difficult for me. The passages were difficult to understand as a broad range of vocabulary was in use. The MCQ choices were very tricky and time constraint made it even worse. I didn’t even have the time to recheck my answers.

Tips: Truth be told, you need to practise answering some MUET sample questions as preparation. I didn’t try any questions and oh my, I was so stumped that it took me a long time to understand the passages! The passages are very difficult to comprehend but I suppose that if you’re used to reading newspapers it wouldn’t be a problem. When answering the paper, read the excerpt first (understand the main idea), then go through the questions briefly and finally read the excerpt again. Underline or highlight sentences that are related to the questions. Most importantly, FOCUS! Don’t bother looking at other candidates or build castles in the air. Trust me, the 90 minutes is not enough!

Writing Test

What to expect: 1 summary (comparison) question based on a graphic. The graphic can be tables, graphs, short excerpts or even bar/pie charts. You are required to make comparison based on the graphic provided. Also, 1 essay question; usually argumentative. 90 minutes.

My experience: The night before my MUET, I sat with my roommate and we brainstormed on points for the essay, new words, idioms, quotes and the like. I’ve always loved writing so I wasn’t very worried for this section.

Tips: For the summary question, familiar yourself with comparison words. Use words like ‘better than’, ‘higher’, ‘rise’, ‘elevate’, ‘levelled out’, ‘equal’, ‘reduce’ and ‘lessen’ to give your essay a boost. Concentrate only on the main points as you are to write a very short 200 words summary. You should first compare on the statistics/graphs/etc given, then add 1 or two points based on your understanding of the graphic. Or in other words, write a few lines on your inference on the graphic. As for the argumentative essay, try to memorise a number of bombastic words and idioms to beautify your essay. You shouldn’t simply memorise them but you ought to know how and when to use them. Also, check out a thesaurus to find synonyms for useful words that you may want to use repetitively. For instance, alternatives to ‘thus’ are ‘therefore’, ‘hence’, ‘consequently’ and ‘as a result’. In addition, to defend your stand, use words like ‘justify’, ‘strongly belief’, ‘affirm’, ‘emphasize’ and et cetera. If you are weak in writing, avoid composing a lengthy essay. The longer you write, the more grammatical errors you’ll make. Try to write a short but compact essay.

Listening Test

What to expect: 20 questions consisting of both MCQ and subjective questions. The tape will be repeated twice and extra time will be given for you to answer all the questions.

My experience: I have to say that I am very lucky for MUET. I was seated in the first row and the radio was right in front of my desk. Unlike my friends who sat far behind and could only hear whispers of voices, I could hear loudly and clearly – word by word. Very lucky, weren’t I? *grins*

Tips: Frankly speaking, the questions for listening test are pretty easy and straightforward. You just have to listen attentively and take your time in answering the questions. I have to warn you that the questions are not in sequence with the dialogue so you should first brief through the questions before the session starts. Don’t panic if you missed a point as the tape will be repeated for a second time.

Well, I hope that I’ve made MUET easy for you. May you have a great MUET experience and score one of the high bands. MUET is rather tough if your English isn’t strong but fret not because practice makes perfect. JBuy a MUET exercise/sample papers/past year compilation book to have a better grasp of this test. If I can score a band 6, why can’t you? I am neither a debater nor a public speaker. I speak in my mother tongue (which is not English!) 24/7 at home. So if I can ace a band 6, I’m pretty sure you can too.

Have faith in yourself and all the best, folks! xD

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Reading test
There are not many tips to share in this test, it is similar to Form 5 SPM English exam, just do your best. There are some tricky questions with similar answers. If you are lucky, you could get a perfect score here but usually the better students would be able to get near perfect scores, making a few mistakes here and there.

Writing test
Seriously, I have always told people that the writing test in MUET is even easier than SPM GCE 'O' Level. In this test, it is important to keep to the rules, follow the recommend length of essays and finish them in allocated time.

Even if you are a good English user, do not attempt to write beyond the recommended length. Concentrate instead on presenting your main ideas, this test papers are marked by Malaysian teachers, so don't bother having too many idioms, figurative meanings, etc.

For students who are not too comfortable with English, this may be one of the tests which you would tend to lose many points. To avoid that, keep your sentences short, check your grammars, try to compensate for your lack of flowery language with good ideas, mature arguments and logical explanations.

To be honest, it is not so easy to score a Band 6 in MUET after all. It is not the perfect test, but it is indicative of one's command of English, mainly because it includes listening and speaking tests. Good luck scoring a Band 6 in MUET on your first try, do let me know if my tips are useful.

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Hint for listening: write notes

Hint for writing: write with a lot of bombastic words and check your grammar. Remember to compare and contrast the two sets of data you get in your first writing task well.

Hint for reading: read very carefully for answers in the text

Here's something for you to ponder about. I can only give the three upper band as a motivation to you and I. 

Band 6 – Very good user(Aggregated Score: 260 – 300)
Very good command of the language. Highly expressive, fluent, accurate and appropriate language: hardly any inaccuracies. Very good understanding of language and contexts. Functions extremely well in the language.

Band 5 – Good user (Aggregated Score: 220 – 259)
Good command of the language. Expressive, fluent, accurate and appropriate language but with minor inaccuracies. Good understanding of language and contexts. Functions well in the language.

Band 4 – Competent user (Aggregated Score: 180 – 219)
Satisfactory command of the language. Satisfactory expressive and fluent, appropriate language but with occasional inaccuracies. Satisfactory understanding of language and contexts. Functions satisfactorily in the language.

We need to think positively, but not to forget to put some EFFORT in it. XD

I know, we are all scared for the writing part. Honestly, in my opinion, Listening, you just have to make sure that you clean up your ear wax in your ear (LOL. But it's important!). Reading, for me, I must not be careless, read the text well, and choose the RIGHT answer. Writing... it depends on individual. Mostly said that use bombastic words, and make sure your essay isgrammatically correct. I'd like to add another one, KEEP UPDATED ON LATEST NEWS!!

Hope it helps ya'll. And me. All the best to all of us taking MUET this coming 13th Nov.


P.s.: Wait for more updates from me after I'm done with this MUET thingy! XD

Cara Mengatasi Rasa Malas Untuk Bersolat

First of all, for sure mostly as a muslim yang belum cukup ilmu di dada ni akan faced dgn this situation mase nak solat kan? so here the tips to maximize our solah to the tip top ! ;) 

1. Bersiap sedia mengambil wuduk sebelum azan.

2. Jangan berlengah-lengah untuk bersolat setelah azan berkumandang.

3. Sentiasa mengingati bahawa malaikat Izrail boleh dating bila-bila masa untuk mencabut nyawa kita, dan kita akan mati.

4. Fikirkan segala azab yang akan diberikan oleh Allah s.w.t.

5. Fikirkan bagaimana siang boleh menjadi malam pada tepat waktunya tanpa sebarang kesilapan. Ia membuktikan kekuasaan Allah s.w.t.

6. Mengenal sifat-sifat Allah kerana dengan mengenal sifat-sifat Allah, manusia akan mendapat merasakan kehadiranNYA dan langsung menanam benih cinta terhadap Allah. Dengan ini manusia akan turut setiap perintah Allah dan tidak akan melengahkan sembahyangnya. InsyaAllah.

7. Mengingati bahwa solat itu penting sebelum kita disolatkan.

8. Sebagai manusia kita tidak lepas dari membuat dosa, dan waktu bersolat itu adalah masa yang sesuai untuk bertaubat.

9. Pergi ke masjid sekiranya malas bersolat bersendirian.

10.Bersembahyang berjemaah bersama ahli keluarga.

11. Menghayati bahawa solat itu adalah jalan yang benar-benar ke akhirat.

12. Jangan makan terlalu banyak kerana bila perut terlalu kenyang akan membuat kita berat dan mengantuk, maka malaslah kita untuk solat.

in sya Allah Allah akan membantu hamba2 nya yang berjihad di jalannya

Take care of urself,, Bye Angah.. ~

Hye asslammualaikum.. entry kali ni bukan pasal diri sendiri , isu semasa, politik mahupun keadaan terkini cuaca dunia.. haha.. tapi.. this is special about my beloved sister angah!
haa.. entry ni pasal kau,, harap kau terasa lah ye bile membaca.. *muehehe..*

ni hah budak nye yang nak pegi kedah..
jauhnya.. :'(

firstly, along nak cakap, I’m proud of your achievement, congrates..

secondly, bile dah sekian lama kau dalam kekusutan  nak memilih mahu dicampak kan di mana, weather,,

1. UiTM – Diploma Kejuruteraan Mekanikal

                     OR

2. Matrik - Aliran Sais Tulen

At the end,, kaw choose Matrik jugak kan setelah dihasut habis-habisan oleh along, haha..
Btw, tat’s is good for you,, short sem je kan,, cepat,.. macam along amek diploma dah 3 tahun kene habiskan.. so nanti buat degree we can go together..

 Secondly..

sorry sangat2,, I’m begging for your forgiveness sebab along memang tak dapat nak hantar kau pergi kedah nanti.. memang nak sangat ikut sekali tapi apakan daya,, ada tanggungjawab yang lebih besar perlu dilaksanakan,, hikhiks! Takde lah.. main2 je lah kaw nii.. actually ade final exam lah… *ergh !
leceh kan dah nak hujung2 bulan pun ade exam.. normal lah tu,, life as a student,, kaw pun nanti merasa.. *padan muka! J

Thirdly..

Jaga diri baik2 dekat sana,, jauh kott kedah,, ape2 hal terus inform ibu dgn abah kat Johor,,
jangan kau memandai settle sendiri or diam diri. Ingat!

jaga kesihatan.. kau dah bawak semua ubatkan.. kau tu dah lah rajin semput,, so jangan byk sgt minum ice,, kalau masa orentasi dia suruh kaw marathon cakap lah pasal semput kaw,, kalau kaw tak nak menyusahkan diri lah kene sedut gas..

lepas tu ..

this is the best point lah along nak bagi tau,, pasal makanan,, kat sana kaw akan banyak jumpa makanan yang pelik2 macam ni.. 

ni namenye bunga tanjung,, buat dari telur itik,
sedap sebab dia rebus dgn air gula,

yang ni name dia bunga dupak,,
yang ni pulak tak tau pulak rase dy mcm mane,,

ni name dy kuih karas, rupa mcm roti jala,
tapi kau jgn jadi orang jakun, ni ala2 keropok sikit,

along tau,, kau ni memilih sikit,, tu tak makan, ni tak makan,, pebende ntah.. hee..

but this is my advice,, kau bedal je lah,, makan je lah ape yang dia bagi kalau kaw tak nak kebuluran lah..
muehehe.. so make sure,, bile kau balik Johor along nak tengok kau dah gemuk ae,,
ni nak buat pengakuan, yang sebenarnya kau kurus sangat macam papan, serius weyh!
so… dah tak reti2 nak makan banyak2..

fourth

Jaga solat,, don’t ever and never to left it.. sebab even kite berusaha sekeras mana pun, tapi kalau kite lupa tanggungjawab kite dekat Allah,, kejayaan tu tak kan ade makna.. belajar, tawakal, ingt Allah, in sya Allah ape yang kau belajar berkat..
kat sana nanti rajin2 lah call ibu dengan abah.. at least 3 times per week ker..
as u know,, kau tau kan macam mana ibu dgn abah risau pasal kaw,, so jgn buat of any things yang boleh buat dorang risau..

Lastly..
take care of yourself,, of your diets,,of your solah,, and always behave..
and always remind of this words,, be the best among the best and try to be the top among the top.
and when u come back, bring your success..

Your sister,
Along . J

19 Hadis Rasulullah SAW Mengenai Wanita

1. Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayangnya yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah s.a.w. akan hal tersebut, jawab Baginda s.a.w., “Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia”.

2. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebajikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.

3. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah s.w.t.

4. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia dari dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

5. Apabila telah lahir anak lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

6. Apabila semalaman ibu tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah s.w.t. memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah s.w.t.

7. Barangsiapa yang menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah s.w.t. dan orang yang takutkan Allah s.w.t., akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.

8. Barangsiapa membawa hadiah, (barang makanan dari pasar ke rumah lalu diberikan kepada keluarganya, maka pahalanya seperti bersedekah). Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki. Maka barangsiapa yang menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.

9. Tiap perempuan yang menolong suaminya dalam urusan agama, maka Allah s.w.t. memasukkan dia ke dalam syurga lebih dahulu daripada suaminya (10,000 tahun).

10. Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa bulan Ramadhan, memelihara kehormatannya serta taat akan suaminya, masuklah dia dari pintu syurga mana sahaja yang dikehendaki.

11. Wanita yang solehah (baik) itu lebih baik daripada 1,000 lelaki yang soleh.

12. Aisyah berkata, “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah s.a.w, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jawab Rasulullah s.a.w., “Suaminya”. “Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?” Jawab Rasulullah s.a.w, “Ibunya”.

13. Apabila memanggil akan engkau dua orang ibubapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu dahulu.

14. Wanita yang taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung di udara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semua beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya.

15. Wanita yang taat berkhidmat kepada suaminya akan tertutup pintu-pintu neraka dan terbuka pintu-pintu syurga. Masuklah dari mana-mana pintu yang dia kehendaki dengan tidak dihisab.

16. Syurga itu di bawah tapak kaki ibu.

17. Wanita yang tinggal bersama anak-anaknya akan tinggal bersama aku (Nabi s.a.w) di dalam syurga.

18. Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka baginya syurga.

19. Daripada Aisyah r.a. “Barangsiapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuan lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada api neraka.”

As long as we did not getting HALAL..

kan sweet kalau cegini.. (^_^)

BAHAYA CINTA SEBELUM KAHWIN!!!!

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*hati terseksa dgn barah rindu

*rindu palsu akan mmbelenggu minda hingga ia terjajah dan terhina di bwh kawaln syaitan

*cinta lalai akn mnyebbkn dirimu lupa mempersiapkn diri utk kprluan dunia akhirt

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*jiwamu benar2 terganggu dlm menilai buruk baik

*jika berjaya melangkah kealam rumah tangga, nescaya atas dasar maksiat, yg mengundang padah kepada peribadi zuriatmu kelak

NA'UZUBILLAH!!!

(pemilik cintaku setelah ALLAH dan RASUL)--FATIMAH SYARHA

wallahualam....hati2 dlm permainan hati dan prasaan..jgn smpai termasuk ke prngkp syaitan!!!